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books to beat the winter blues...or what I'm reading to keep from mopingStill reading COLONIZE THIS! Also began reading a zine about domestic violence, which I started reading a while back, put down and then found again on Friday when I was sorting through my overflowing envelopes of unread zines to figure out what I was realistically ever going to read and what would just take up space in that envelope forever. And last night I got a back issue of COLORLINES and started that. In an article about teaching self-defense to Asian-Americans, the teacher said/wrote this and it really struck me: "There's a concept called trauma mastery, which explains that people get into these fields, like self-defense or emergency room work or even organizing, because they've had trauma in their own lives that they want to fix. You revisit that trauma over and over again in other people to save that one person you couldn't save before. But there's always a gap between your motivation and the work because you can never master a trauma, you can never save that person because it's already happened, it's done. "If you don't know why you're doing what you're doing, you start to blame the participants... You start to feel like you're the only person who can do the job, like tihs is my crusade. You see only black and white, you can't see shades. The only way we can prevent that is to really ask that question, why I am doing what I'm doing? That is the most important thing to come clean about." Those two paragraphs really struck me and reminded me as to why I do what I do and why I push myself so hard. But that, I think, should be the topic of a 300 words and not my reading list for the day. By PhoenixRising at 12/05/2005 - 7:37pm | What Are You Reading? | previous forum topic | next forum topic
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